Relationships
Relationship tips and hints.
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Abusers Are People Too.
Please don’t ever think abusive people are heartless. They are not. I have heard their hearts breaking and their pain is real. Even more, perhaps, than the average person whose partner walks out. The abusive person works so hard to gain control over their partner that they are shattered beyond belief when she or he gets away despite everything they have done to ensure that won’t happen. My heart bleeds for them sometimes. They swear they never hit their partner, never laid a hand on them, and I believe that in some cases. What they don’t understand is you don’t have to actually hit someone to be an abuser. There…
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A Difference Between Men And Women.
A look at one of the crucial differences between the sexes that could save your relationship or help you understand why it really is over.
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Love And The Stages Of Change
This entry looks at the "stages of change" and how I am using them to try and get over my obsession with a man I haven't seen for six years. A man who doesn't want me and never did.
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Love And Sex
This entry explains why I believe the more sex men and women have the harder it is for them to genuinely love each other.
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From Sex To Celibacy.
As far as I know my sex life started when I was around four years old. If it began earlier than that I don’t remember it. The issue of whether to write details of what happened to me back then is a sore point. Those who do such things to children like to read about such things being done to children as well. I am not keen on the idea of being used as porn so I think I will keep the details to myself. I am expecting to have to write about this subject more than once as there are many things to say about it. My resolve to…
