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Porn And Problem Solving
I hate porn so, when it appeared in my site statistics, it upset me so I used the life skill of problem-solving to end the crisis.
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More Product Rants
They have taken my preferred frozen pizza off the shelves which makes me mad but I did find a toilet tissue that doesn't leave me with toilet paper dags.
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How To Avoid Abusive People
This entry looks at three of the warning signs I look for to help me reduce my chances of getting involved with abusive people.
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The Cost Of Jumping To Conclusions
Jumping to conclusions can cost people more than they will ever be aware of. This entry looks at an example of this.
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Forgiveness And Love
An entry that looks at my theory about who God really is - he is existence itself - and how this belief allows me to forgive, and love, people such as my abusers.
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The Self-Destruct Button
In this entry I explore the habit of self-sabotage and self-destruct that many survivors of childhood abuse end up with. Could this blog really be just one more of my attempts to destroy myself?
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Violence And Self Defence
God deals with the views I developed about the use of violence to defend myself after I was attacked and left suffering from post traumatic stress disorder.
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You Reap What You Sow In Your Children
There is a difference between being "honoured" by your children and having their love. I managed to raise children who give me both. This entry explores my theories about how that came to be.
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Pessimism, Paranoia And Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
A trojan horse on my computer triggers pessimism and paranoia. These activate my PTSD and my reactions cause more harm than the trojan itself!
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Abusers Are People Too.
Please don’t ever think abusive people are heartless. They are not. I have heard their hearts breaking and their pain is real. Even more, perhaps, than the average person whose partner walks out. The abusive person works so hard to gain control over their partner that they are shattered beyond belief when she or he gets away despite everything they have done to ensure that won’t happen. My heart bleeds for them sometimes. They swear they never hit their partner, never laid a hand on them, and I believe that in some cases. What they don’t understand is you don’t have to actually hit someone to be an abuser. There…
